Thursday, July 17, 2008

20 Dating Lessons


Here are 20 lessons I’ve learned over the years
as a dating coach.


1) Attraction is illogical, but being able to explain
it logically can really help your game.

2) Attitude, not technique, is what’s the most
important. With the right attitude, techniques
will come naturally. Unfortunately, this is
something most guys don’t get.

3) Stay away from people with bad character. They
will drain all your energy.

4) Appearance is often reality, not matter what
they taught you in school.

5) After the age of 28, you can’t really blame
your parents for your life anymore. Of course, this
rule is violated all the time.

6) Some people are beyond help. Leave them be
and help other people instead.

7) Not everyone will like you. It’s true in both
dating (women or men) and in business (customers.)

8) Pick up artists who are only interested in
sleeping around will die lonely.

9) Bad experiences can fuel you or depress you.
Take a pick.

10) A person’s choice of friends reveal a lot
about the person.

11) Don’t worry about what other people think.
Nobody cares. They are all too busy worrying about
themselves - just as you are.

12) Trust the “red signals”. Your mind is warning
you.

13) People relate to stories and metaphors. This
applies to both teaching and talking to women.

14) Most long distance relationships fail. It’s
sad, but true.

15) Words don’t matter and they can change. Look
at actions instead.

16) Simple works best.

17) Build up your social life and your social proof,
and women (or men) will come.

18) It’s not who you are inside, but what you
do, that matters.

19) Most people can never change. Keep that in mind
next time you want to convert a loser into a
boyfriend or girlfriend.

20) Uncertainty is scary, but it boosts attraction.
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