Sunday, July 20, 2008

Dating Tips for Men

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Introduction

Dear Guy,
It’s me, Dater. Welcome and thank you for downloading my E-tips special report.
Whether you know nothing or plentiful about dating, I hope that you will find the short tips within this special report useful for your next date! You will also come to gather that like any sports you watch on TV, dating is a game. Some times you win, and some times, well, you lose. But one thing’s for sure: no GUYS on this planet love rejection from the opposite sex the admire so much! However, you can greatly improve the odds because in as much as most guys assume that women are so-called “from a different planet”, you can control the game of dating and win - only if you understand how a woman thinks!
That’s one of the first steps. Within the coming pages, discover some powerful dating tips you can use for your own and develop a better understanding over the opposite sex.
This is also my way of demonstrating my expertise in this field to you - just wait until you see what I offer in my paid products and services I think you’ll definitely be interested.
So, have fun reading this special report, and don’t forget to print it out! To Your Dating Success! TO Ensure your Dating success

Men’s Dating Tip #1:

Women, even very beautiful women, like to be approached by a confident and interesting man.
This is a little secret that those of the female persuasion keep from us guys. Are you surprised? It’s true that confident and interesting are much more important than looks to ladies of all ages, too. That holds true for Internet Dating, as well as, dating in your brick and mortar world.
If you have joined an Online Dating service, you will find that there a lot more men than women and that the men are much more likely to browse profiles and make initial contacts than women.
Yes, it’s a woman’s world…still. It’s “traditional” for men to make the first move. It always has been and it always will be. Some things never change. That’s why your profile and picture are so important. Remember, confident and interesting… and that does not translate to cocky and self-centered.
It’s important that your profile lets people know that you have friends you care about and that you are passionately interested in a variety of things…not JUST sports. Another thing about that all-important profile….please don’t start it with, “I’m the guy your mama warned you about”.
You will have just shot yourself in the foot with that line. Another one to never use is, “I could be the man of your dreams”.
The lady HOPES you are but she will be the judge of that…so don’t insult
her intelligence. Remember….exude confidence and interesting and you will find that lady you have been looking for…or she will find you. Won’t it be nice to have the ladies contacting you instead of you having to do everything? If you write a great profile that stands out in the crowd, that will happen.

Men’s Dating Tip #2:


Dating success is actually spelled A-B-C.
Getting back to basics can work wonders in dating relationships. So head back to school and go over the ABC’s of dating.
A is for agreeable and appearance. You need not agree with everything your date says. But act in an agreeable manner. Bummer, but gruff, loud comments - and sounds (like farts and burping) can scare some women off - fast. So can unkind, rude, obnoxious, drunk, sexist, racial and mean comments. So act like a gentleman and keep the focus light and easy. And when dating in person and not online, have a neat appearance. No need for formal attire, but wear clean clothes without rips in them.
B is for body language. Keep the eyes where they need to be, gents. No
lewd stares or even quick glances at cleavage - regardless of whether or not the looks are directed at your date or other people. And keep
communications open with your arms relaxed, i.e. not crossed and closed.
C is for communications and YES, you need to do this. Unfortunately women don’t drop out of trees into your arms - or most don’t. So you need to get out there, online or off, find them, email, chat, phone or somehow communicate with them.
So back to the basics, gents. And then forward into battle of the sexes!

Men’s Dating Tip #3:

Subscribe to these Dating wisdoms.
Finding helpful advice can sure be great for getting and developing dating relationships. So here are words of wisdom to help gentlemen out there seeking more from their dating. Drinking and dating don’t necessarily mix. Why? “…there's nothing
uglier than a woman who can't handle her liquor!" - JR Ewing, Dallas
You need to be able to find the milk right in front on the shelf of your refrigerator. And you’ll need to be able to conduct other such “simple” searches.
“I hate women because they always know where things are.” - James Thurber Not all women want to be equal. “Women who seek to be equal with men lack ambition.” - Timothy Leary
And not all things make sense, especially in relationships. “There is no reciprocity. Men love women, women love children, children love hamsters.” - Alice Thomas Ellis Don’t underestimate sex. “Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place.” - Billy Crystal Age does make a difference, at least in some things. “At the age of eleven or thereabouts women acquire a poise and an ability to handle difficult situations which a man, if he is lucky, manages to achieve somewhere in the later seventies.” - P. G. Wodehouse Age matters, to some. “I'd go out with women my age, but there are no women my age.” - George Burns
It may be all I the asking. “Whether they give or refuse, it delights women just the same to have been asked.” - Ovid It’s a zoo out there, like it or not. “Women and cats do as they damned well please, and men and dogs had best learn to live with it.” - Alan Holbrook
There’s no alternative. “Why can't they invent something for us to marry instead of WOMEN?” - Fred Flintstone Or is there? “Women! Can't live with them...pass the beer nuts.” -Norm (Cheers) And what they wear might not really matter either. “Women! Ya can't live with 'em and ya can't get 'em to wear skimpy little Nazi outfits.” -
Emo Phillips Having a good memory might help. “Women remember the first kiss, men remember the last.” - Anonymous So learn from the wise. Head their advice!

Men’s Dating Tip #4:

Use Online Dating.
When the phenomenon of Online Dating sites started several years ago, they were a haven for perverts, sexual predators, nerds, and weirdoes of assorted
varieties. That is just no longer the case.
All the stigma of Online Dating is gone. Online Dating has gone main
stream and is, not only acceptable, but expected. Online Dating has become the primary tool of single people of all ages to generate an interesting and rewarding social life.
Let’s face it…we are busy guys. We just simply do not have the time, the
energy, or the financial where-with-all to date several nights each week while we look for the “one”.
You can sort through hundreds of profiles in a month for less money than
you would spend on one evening out, thus, saving time and money.
We use the Internet to save ourselves time and money for a lot of things like
investments, shopping, medical information, and communications.
Why not make use of such a useful tool for our social and personal lives as
well? You could find the love of your life. At the very least, you will meet
some interesting people and possibly make some lasting friendships. It’s
easy to get started.
All you need is a computer and an Internet connection. You’ll need to search
for Online Dating services that meet your specific needs. They are many and
varied.
Join one or two. Then you’ll need to write a great profile, upload a recent picture of yourself and start making and answering contacts. That really is all there is to it… that and patience. Don’t wait any longer to start your new and interesting social life. Miss or Ms. “Right” could be only a few clicks of the mouse away.

Men’s Dating Tip #5:

Honesty is REALLY the BEST policy.
When you join an Online Dating service, you are looking for a girl that you can like…even come to love. That girl is looking for a guy that SHE can like or even love.
What you aren’t looking for is a girl who would like your best friend or your idea of what the perfect guy looks like or talks like or thinks like.
So, in order to find the right girl for you… and she IS out there…you need to be completely honest with yourself about yourself when writing the online profile, during the dating process and beyond.
The best way to begin writing your profile is to carefully analyze your past relationship(s).
What was right? What was wrong? What things really made you like the last girl? Which didn’t?
Don’t assume that just because you hated that your last girl was so totally self-involved that she couldn’t see anything else, you’ll be able to overlook that quality this time. You won’t.
If you aren’t 6’1” with a six-pack to be proud of, don’t claim to be. If you are a bar tender, don’t claim to be a lawyer with a six figure income. If you are 40 going on 50, don’t pretend to be 30 something.
Remember, the idea here is to find a girl who will like you exactly like you
are. If you have lied in your profile, the first face-to-face meeting will
remove all her doubt that you are a liar…and probably a cheat, as well.
Lastly, once you have found a girl that you believe can be the one for you,
for goodness sakes, cancel your membership to the Online Dating service.
After all, you know and she knows that Online Dating services are intended
for those who are looking…not those who have found or been found.

Bonus!

And Even More Dating Tips for Men
Time to arm yourselves with more tips for heading out to battle with the sexes, gents. Or as some say, to enhance dating relationships.
1. Smile - Humor is good if it’s good humor; i.e. keep it clean. Ladies like it if you can make ‘em laugh a little.
2. Hero - Ladies look for heroes. So be one for them. No shining knight with armor stuff. But save the day and be there for them when they have a bad day, when holidays come (have a gift handy), and late at night for a shoulder to cry on.
3. Mr. Fix-It - OK, you don’t have to know auto mechanics or plumbing. But women like to know you can “fix” things. So mention tools that you have once in awhile. Chainsaws are cool. And let them know you do things like you can change something (even if it means like the oil in your car - learn how from a library book, if you need to) or install something (even if you know it only means a new bulb in a lamp).
So save face, guys. Got to be looking good for the ladies!

In Closing

Hi it’s me again.
I trust you’ve had fun reading this special report and that you discover
something new about dating in ways you don’t know so well of.
But you’re only one step away from making your special date a dream come true: just put it into practice! Overcome your fears of rejection. Practice in front of a mirror if you have to. But most importantly, just do it. All the best!

To Your Dating Success!
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